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A very personal slice for me today...which means I'm making myself vulnerable. Ooohhh, this is scary...but, here goes...

It's a poem about advice given to me. 

Make a list of qualities you're looking for in a man. 

I wrote this...it's a draft, a beginning, a vision...


My list



Who are you?

Kind eyes
Strong hands,
Taller than me,
Mischievous smile, 
Contagious laugh…

Please &thank-you,
Tell me about your day,
Guess what?
I’ve always dreamed of…

Talk and talk and talk-

Intertwining fingers,
Kneeling to pray,
Calmly breathing close to me,
Awakening my spirit…

Nickname giver,
Walker of dog,
Problem solver (not mine, his),
Concert & theater-goer,
Hand holder…

Faith filled,
Forgiving,
Not perfect-
Flawed,
Perfect for me...

I'm looking for...
The man who-
just by being him,
will help me
be the best version of
me







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  1. drferreriblogspot.comMarch 20, 2014 at 5:38 AM

    Of course your initial disclaimer that I might not want to read this made me zoom in here! I love how you captured not only who you are but how you also seek others who support and can help you realize your dreams. Isn't that the most human of characteristics?

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  2. Kevin HodgsonMarch 20, 2014 at 5:46 AM

    I hope love comes your way, like some flower on an unexpected wind, Michelle.
    Kevin

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  3. AnonymousMarch 20, 2014 at 5:52 AM

    Thank you for being vulnerable.
    By doing that you have made a connection with me in that I know someone who has similar hopes and dreams as me.

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  4. CarolMarch 20, 2014 at 5:52 AM

    This is a beautiful list, Michelle. Praying that God will bring this man into your life very soon!

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  5. JaanaMarch 20, 2014 at 6:01 AM

    I don't think you are alone in your journey. Your poem is beautiful, almost like a prayer. Wishing you love, much love!

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  6. AnonymousMarch 20, 2014 at 8:31 AM

    Good Luck Michelle. I always wanted a guy taller than I am and never found one. I gave up on that one and settled for other things on my list :)

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    1. Michelle HaseltineMarch 20, 2014 at 7:58 PM

      Haha, Bonnie! I'd happily give that up...this is a starting place, I guess.

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  7. LynnMarch 20, 2014 at 9:26 AM

    Your poem is awesome Michelle . . . it shows you are open for love and loving . . . best of luck!

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  8. Linda BMarch 20, 2014 at 9:58 AM

    It's wonderful when you know clearly what you need, Michelle. I know there's someone out there describing you, & waiting... Beautiful poem!

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  9. Leigh Anne EckMarch 20, 2014 at 10:52 AM

    Perfect for me...love that line! As long as you are open...and continue to take risks...who knows what doors will open for you. He has a plan...just continue to be patient and pray.

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    1. Michelle HaseltineMarch 20, 2014 at 7:59 PM

      Thanks Leigh Anne! I believe there's a plan. I'm grateful for my life & I'll continue to pray.

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  10. Terje March 20, 2014 at 11:53 AM

    You just sent your dream to the universe. I hope the universe responds. May-be the answer won't be tall nor like dogs, but he may still be perfect for you. It certainly took courage to share this. I appreciate that you trusted your readers.

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    1. Michelle HaseltineMarch 20, 2014 at 8:00 PM

      You put into words what I've been feeling today...by sharing this...I've put it out into the world. Thank you for being such a wonderful reader! I appreciate your comments!

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  11. MichelleMarch 20, 2014 at 12:39 PM

    Beautiful list. Many years ago I remember praying to God that I would meet some one who would love me for me (flaws included!) and He did. Continue to pray.

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    1. Michelle HaseltineMarch 20, 2014 at 8:01 PM

      I will continue. Thank you for sharing your story! I believe.

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  12. Beverley BairdMarch 20, 2014 at 4:14 PM

    I Loved your list. Being vulnerable is brave and empowering. I do believe that putting that awesome list out there and leaving it in God's hands will draw that man to you. I did that after my divorce - wrote a long list of the qualities I had to have if I was ever to marry again (which I doubted!). I did not expect to find someone like that (with many of the qualities you listed). But several years later, when I had married my now husband, I found the list and all but one of the items I had listed were there. Bill is not taller than me - we see eye to eye!

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    1. Michelle HaseltineMarch 20, 2014 at 8:02 PM

      "...we see eye to eye!" I LOVE that!!! Thank you for sharing your story!

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  13. TaraMarch 20, 2014 at 5:04 PM

    This is lovely, Michelle - and brave, too.

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  14. JudyMarch 20, 2014 at 7:35 PM

    Michelle, this is a wonderful poem/prayer. One day that Mr. Right will come into your life and will accept you for who you are - a beautiful, talented woman. As my Michelle said (see above), God sent her a special someone, so keep praying.

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  15. Jennifer SniadeckiMarch 20, 2014 at 7:47 PM

    You wrote a great poem! I also clicked your post as soon as I read, "You might not want to read this…" Yes, I do! I'm sure you'll find the right person, just when you aren't looking. Have a great night!

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  16. Michelle HaseltineMarch 20, 2014 at 7:57 PM

    Richard, I've been thinking about your comment all day. I really appreciate what you said. Thank you so much!!

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  17. Michelle HaseltineMarch 20, 2014 at 8:04 PM

    Thank you for all of these comments. I am overwhelmed with your kind words, prayers and support. I'm blessed to be part of this amazing blogging community! So grateful that I took the risk to share these thoughts.

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  18. AnonymousMarch 20, 2014 at 8:37 PM

    Beautiful ending!

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