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Confessions of a Nerd



If you're a long time reader, you'll know this. 
If you know me IRL, you'll know this. 
If you're related to me, you'll know this...

 I'm a nerd. 
from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nerd


https://www.dictionary.com/browse/nerd



https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/nerd






WAIT a minute! I reject each and every one of these definitions. Unstylish? Unattractive? Socially awkward? Foolish or contemptible?!?!


NO! That's not what a nerd is...that's not what I am. It's time for the definition (dictionary definition) of this word to change. What am I? I can accept that I have a single-minded focus. Writing. Yes, I am a writing nerd. I love all things writing.

My notebook is my constant companion. It goes more places with me than my dog. I can always be counted on to have a fancy pen or two stashed away in my purse or my pocket. When something happens in my family and we need something written, I'm the one they always turn to and I get the job done.
  
Writing brings me peace and clarity. Writing comforts me when I feel lonely and it celebrates with me when I succeed. Words have power. Being someone who writes and uses words feels good. So, when someone calls me a nerd...I smile, say thank you, and I own it!

Are you a nerd too?

Two Writing Teachers
Slice of Life



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  1. Ms. ErikaAugust 21, 2018 at 8:19 AM

    Why yes, I am a nerd (in many senses of the word). I also proudly identify myself this way. I like the way you own the word!
    Erika

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  2. FranAugust 21, 2018 at 8:30 AM

    Michelle,
    Single-minded focus - yes! Let's bring "nerd" into socially accepted and CHANGE that old 1950's definition!

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  3. Carol VarsalonaAugust 21, 2018 at 9:14 AM

    In nerd language, I am for the single-minded purpose of writing. Bella seems to be engaged with her pencil pillow. What can she write for us?

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  4. AnonymousAugust 21, 2018 at 2:07 PM

    Me? Nerd? You betcha! I wear my Minecraft shirt with pride, talk about my blog to those who will listen, proudly embrace my love of Harry Potter, and will read a book almost anywhere.

    The nerds of the world need to unite, because without us, who would lead?? :)

    Thank you for this great slice!

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  5. JenAugust 21, 2018 at 8:46 PM

    I'm so proud to be a nerd, too! Thank you for reminding us that this is a label (although I really hate that word, I can't think of a better one) to embrace and celebrate!

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  6. Quintina SmithAugust 21, 2018 at 11:25 PM

    Yes, I am a nerd, though my family works hard to separate me from my nerdish pursuits. However, when I come together with other like minded nerds, I feel powerful and mighty and proud of my writing and reading endeavors. ... and I can truly say I have you to thank for that! ;-)

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